How do I find my Sons or Daughters Father is a question that really came to light over the last few weeks. This is a type of work that we do for people quite a lot of the time.
I think that mothers feel obliged to look for their one time partner just to offer their children closure or to make a gesture of love to their children, regardless of the reason its work that we get to do on a daily basis, so what are the usually out comes and what should you consider when you’re looking for your son or daughters father? We’ll look into that and then we answer the question of how you find them.
What to consider when you are looking for your son or daughters father…
Firstly, this can be a can of worms. So you need to think carefully about why you are looking for the father of your children and what benefit you want to get from the contact with him. Is it for your children or is it for you? Just something to consider. You may find him and he may be grateful to have been found but what if he has passed away or what if he doesn’t want to know? These are scenarios that can happen and should be considered by you all before you decide to proceed with a search.
Have you spoken to your son or daughter about this? It’s really important that you do because it could cause problems if they see this as going behind their backs. Now, it could be possible that you are doing this as a surprise and that you expect that they will be delighted to know where there father is but it’s also important to consider if they have any feelings about the situation that they haven’t told you or maybe not even admitted to their self. In our experience it’s crucial that you’ve all sat down as a family and decided to do this together, that you’ve discussed the possible outcomes and you are ready to deal with them together. People change, so the father to your children could be a completely different man to the one you and your offspring left behind. It’s crucial consider the ‘what ifs’. Of course if you were to choose our service to carry out this work for you then we would keep you in the loop every step of the way and make sure you felt supported and informed throughout the process.
How do I find my sons/daughters father…
This simplest way is to use our multi-award winning people tracing services to locate him for them. We’ll guide you and support you all throughout the whole process. We’ll find your son or daughters father and then make contact with him and act as a go between until you’re all ready to move forward together in any way that is agreeable to you all. This way of working has really because the gold standard of tracing and it’s something we are very proud of. All parties leave the process in a good place and in the event that someone does not want contact we can act as a middle man to find out why and work out if anything can be done, doing it this way will protect your family.
Please see some of our other blog posts for people tracing techniques and tools.
This is just a short article on some of the things to think about when you’re wondering how to find your son or daughters father.